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You Sat in That Appointment and Forgot Every Question You Meant to Ask.

The Questions to Ask Your Doctor Checklist gives you 88 questions across every stage of breast cancer, from diagnosis to survivorship, so you walk in prepared and walk out with answers.

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If Your Mind Went Blank the Second You Heard

“You Have Cancer,” You Are Not Alone.

Here is what nobody warns you about. You get the news, and everything after it turns to static. You nod. You say okay. You drive home and realize you cannot remember a single thing the doctor said.

Then you are up at 2am, searching things you should not be searching, writing questions on the back of an envelope, hoping you remember to ask them next time.

I have been there. I sat in that chair. I forgot my questions too.

That is exactly why I made this.

What’s Inside the Checklist

8 questions. 6 sections. Every stage of the journey, not just day one.

Understanding Your Diagnosis

14 questions to get clear on your type, stage, receptor status, and what it all actually means.

Surgery Decisions

15 questions for lumpectomy vs. mastectomy, lymph nodes, reconstruction, and recovery.

Radiation Therapy

13 questions on what to expect, skin care, fatigue, and long term effects.

Chemotherapy

21 questions split into before, during, and after, including the ones most women do not think to ask.

Hormone Therapy & Ongoing Medications

13 questions on side effects, bone health, and what to do when you cannot tolerate it.

Follow-Up Care & Survivorship

13 questions for the part nobody prepares you for, including scanxiety and the “now what?” feeling.

Every section includes a personal note from me

about what I wish I had known, plus space to write your doctor’s answers right on the page. Print it, put it in your bag, bring it with you.

Most Question Lists Stop at Diagnosis.

Yours Shouldn’t.

Search “questions to ask your oncologist” and you will find the same short list over and over, all aimed at week one.

But your questions change. What you need to ask before surgery is not what you need to ask during chemo, and neither one prepares you for the appointment where they tell you treatment is over and you are supposed to feel relieved.

This checklist covers all of it, because I built it from the questions I actually needed, at the moments I actually needed them.

Hi! I'm Jen Delvaux!

I was diagnosed with breast cancer and I made it through surgery, radiation, and the long list of decisions nobody feels ready to make. I named my radiation machine Roxy. I prayed for one person during every session. I asked the questions, sometimes twice, until I understood.

Now I host the Not Today Cancer podcast and lead a community of women walking this same road. I am not a doctor and this is not medical advice. I am the friend who has been there and who wants you to walk into your next appointment feeling like you have a plan.